Friday, June 19, 2009

My new Match.com match....

I've signed up with Match.com, after deciding that I have to be more active in finding that right person for me. It has been a little slow but have had a couple of real promising matches.

The first was made after only a couple of days on my new service. She was recently divorced (which ironically, most of the women on Match are) and has shared custody of their child. We started off really strong and I found myself really falling for her. This went on for a few days when she didn't have her child with her. When the week started, her child came back and I was completely shut out (well mostly, I couldn't see her during this time). I understand that she didn't want me to meet her child yet, but I felt we could have done something more to see one another.

Well, after just over a week of not seeing her, I told her we should call it quits. This was so difficult for me to do since I was CRAZY about her, but I'm a person that just needs that time with my woman. I think about that moment everyday, whether or not I made the right choice. I also felt like I was smothering her a bit since she had a lot of things on her plate.

Now, I'm seeing another woman. She is awesome. We didn't start off strong, but seem to be getting better with one another as we spend more time with one another. We had a couple of "calling it quit" moments, but we have worked thru them. She if funny, attractive, adventurous and really tries to spend as much time with me as possible. I love that! Oh, and her dad loves to play tennis, so at least him and I will have a common interest, if/when I meet with him.

She is a bit younger than me, but that doesn't seem to be an issue with us. I just hope this works out for us. I want it to work and am willing to give it a fighting chance.

I'll try to put up some pictures of her if she is ok with it..in the near future. Stay tuned!

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